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This Is Why You Keep Playing Small | Mid Week Tease

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This week on The Mid Week Tease, Adelle Onyango unpacks the limiting beliefs that quietly shape how you see yourself, your work, your money, and your life. A lot of what we call self-doubt, fear, or “not feeling ready” isn’t random. It’s learned. Formed in childhood. Reinforced over time. And often… never questioned. In this episode, Adelle explores how early experiences shape core beliefs like: “I’m not good enough”“I have to prove my worth”“Success isn’t for me”And how these beliefs show up in adulthood: playing small at workstruggling with visibilityundercharging in businessconstantly seeking validationDrawing from psychology frameworks like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Schema Theory, and learned helplessness, this episode helps you understand why you keep repeating certain patterns and how to begin shifting them. If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding yourself back, this episode will help you see why. And more importantly what you can start doing about it. Join Us: Becoming The Woman You Want To Be Adelle Onyango is hosting an upcoming wellness talk with accredited psychologist Faith Guchu on April 11th. Together, they’ll guide you through: understanding your childhood patternsunpacking limiting beliefsbreaking cycles that no longer serve youand becoming the woman you know you’re meant to beThe event is already 50% sold out. If this episode resonated with you, this is your invitation to go deeper. Get your ticket here: https://legallycluelessafrica.hustlesasa.shop/products/69c004151d6e078f7e884f1d Stay Connected with Legally Clueless Africa: Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8

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