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I Did The Most Trying To Be Loved Then I Had To Face Myself | For Mannerless Women

Legally Clueless
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This week on For Mannerless Women, Adelle sits down with Sarah Mukabana (Plus Wanga Princess) for a raw, honest, and deeply relatable conversation about self-worth, validation, and what it really takes to come back to yourself. From losing herself in a relationship where she constantly sought to be chosen, to navigating the messy aftermath of a breakup, Sarah opens up about the moments many women experience, but rarely say out loud. This episode explores: The pressure to perform in relationships to feel lovedThe “pick-me” phase and how it shows up in real lifeWhat happens after a breakup, the chaos, the overdoing, and the crashRebuilding your self-worth from withinSimple daily practices that help you genuinely like yourselfAt its core, this episode asks one powerful question: Do you actually like yourself, when no one else is watching? If you’ve ever felt like you had to overgive, overperform, or become someone else to be loved, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. STAY CONNECTED WITH LEGALLY CLUELESS AFRICA Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8 Subscribe to Legally Clueless Africa for more conversations that help you unlearn, heal, and choose yourself. #ForMannerlessWomen #LegallyCluelessAfrica #AfricanWomen

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