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Habtamu Isaacson: I feel like I have to be somebody. (Interview Part 1)

Ethiopian Adoptees | Unapologetically Unfiltered
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Heyy everyone! In this new episode, I am joined by Habtamu Isaacson who shares his powerful adoption story. Adopted at the age of 9 in 2010 by a family in Minnesota, Habtamu reveals the challenging realities behind his adoption, rooted in the corruption of the Ethiopian adoption system. His grandmother, whom he loved dearly, was coerced into giving him up under false pretenses—a heartbreaking truth many adoptees share. Habtamu discusses the often-ignored aspects of adoption that adoptive families and society fail to acknowledge, despite the outcry from adoptees. He opens up about the emotional, psychological, and physical abuse he endured from those who were seen and reinforced as "saviors." Sadly, as Habtamu recounts, it was these very "saviors" who manipulated the imbalance of power, creating chaos, isolation, and deceit. In our conversation, Habtamu reflects on how his adoptive parents impacted his relationships with his biological sister, siblings, and friends, and how he struggled to navigate a new and unfamiliar world with limited support and resources. His story is a testament to his incredible bravery, resilience, and unshakable determination. Despite the difficulties he faced, Habtamu's journey is one of hope and faith, a reminder that even in the darkest moments, things can and will improve. I am incredibly grateful to Habtamu for his vulnerability and strength to share his story. His courage is truly inspiring. Thank you, Habtamu!

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