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You Can't Control Everything

Toni Told Me with Toni Tone
S1 E1438:29
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Overthinking is the silent killer of productivity, happiness, and potential. It can leave you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and mentally drained. In this episode, Toni gets real about her own struggles with overthinking and dives into why our minds spiral, how overthinking can show up in sneaky ways, and most importantly—how to stop it. Plus, she’s back with your listener dilemmas in this week’s Teatime with Toni—you won’t want to miss it. Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod. Tickets for Toni Told Me LIVE at The Curzon Mayfair, 9th September, are on sale NOW 🎉 Don't sleep on this one because it's your last chance to see her before she jets off to Houston ✈️ Click HERE for tickets!! Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday! Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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