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Talks on Love Playlist (2/5): Even healthy couples fight — the difference is how | Julie and John Gottman

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Can conflict actually bring you and your partner closer? It depends on how you fight, say Julie and John Gottman, the world's leading relationship scientists. They share why the way couples fight can predict the future of their relationships — and show how anybody can transform conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection and understanding. This episode originally aired in 2024. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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