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Stop Treating Kindness As A Mandate To Serve

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You are taking someone’s grace and turning it into a throne, which actually creates a strange imbalance in the relationship. When you treat a kind person like a deity, you stop seeing them as a human peer. And it’s not just unfair to the person but it’s mostly unfair to you.. You over-extend and start to pay a debt that doesn’t exist. Kindness is an invitation to connect, not a mandate to serve. Put the pedestal away. Genuinely kind people just want to be nice, not worshipped. #personalgrowth #kelvinodenusi #selflove #selfesteem #emotionalintelligence #confidence #growth #growthmindset #findingpurpose #dothingsyoudontwanttodo

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