As we celebrate Episode 80, I'm saying things out loud that gay African men have never been allowed to say in our families, churches, queer spaces, or even to each other. I'm not g…
This episode discusses the real numbers on homosexuality in Africa, the research that has been done, what it has found, and the big difference between what African governments say…
The same church that calls gay love sinful has covered up abuse, ignored domestic violence and blessed corrupt politicians. This episode is the conversation they do not want you to…
African leaders call homosexuality a Western import. Same-sex relationships existed across Africa long before colonization. The criminalization came on the ships. The laws, the chu…
This episode covers what most gay African men bring into dating before the first date even happens. Why secrecy does something very specific and very damaging to a relationship, ho…
What it costs to grow up with conditional love, how to survive and rebuild even when families do not support you, and the particular grief that a queer African child experiences wh…
