Igbo, Queer, and Unfiltered
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Let's Take A break

Igbo, Queer, and Unfiltered
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This episode is for people who have felt bad about slowing down, who have been physically worn out by survival, and who are ready to see ease as a right instead of a reward. To rest is not to be lazy. Rest is what they never wanted us to have. It's about what it's like for queer people when everyone expects them to perform, prove, and produce just to be tolerated. We're told we need to be quiet to be safe, strong to be respected, and exceptional to be accepted. If you've ever been scared to stop, say no, or just be still, this episode is as well for you.#QueerAndUnbothered #RestIsReparations #SoftnessIsPower #LGBTQHealing #AfroQueerVoices #RadicalRest #UnapologeticallyQueer #RestAsResistance #QueerLiberation #ProtectYourPeace #BlackQueerJoy #ReclaimEase #QueerBirthright #MyOwnKindOfRunway #SlowDownToSurvive

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